By Olubunmi Adebayo
A lot of us are fond of saying what they don’t really mean at the heat of emotional tension or pressure.
Never join such people to act like this please.
This type of behaviour shows nothing but lack of self-control, carelessness, and lack of discretion on the part of the person. A man who is overwhelmed by things around him, and ends up saying just anything with his mouth is a dangerous fellow that should be avoided.
In this life, one needs to be very careful of what one says when he or she is sad, excited, angry or disappointed.
This is because, whatever you say may likely have very serious consequences that a person may not have control over. Simply put, there is power in your words.
Several people have so acted and thrown away golden opportunities, or raised needless opposition against themselves or their interests. Some have by so doing :
1) Sent their life helpers away.
2) Some have ended up cursing their own children or other beloved ones with their mouths.
3) Some have ruined long standing relationships.
4) Some have destroyed long time friendships.
5) Some have put in jeopardy a lot of things that are beyond their individual person.
Please ensure that you are not a victim of such a recklessly spoken word. Think deeply before you speak.
Several people you classify as your friends only need to hear some odd words from your mouth, and they will turn against you headlong!
As our elders used to admonish us : a word is enough for the…..
