By Olubunmi Adebayo
It is important you prepare your mind not to get easily disappointed in people.
Are you the type that is easily disappointed in people when what you don’t expect happens?
Know it for sure that people will always disappoint you. There is very little you can do about it.
By this I mean :
Those you genuinely love will disappoint you.
Those you actually count upon will terribly let you down.
Those you classify as your best of friends will do the most unthinkable towards you or your interest.
Some of you couldn’t believe it will hurt you badly.
Others you least expect, will gang up against you.
Some will accuse you falsely.
Some will say unbelievable and damnable remarks about you.*
*Some will keep seeking what to pin down on you.
In all of these instances and more, know that the nature of man is just like this.
On your part, you must let go of ill-feelings this experience may create and move on with your life. This could be difficult, but it is your means of overcoming this type of toxic relationships and situations of life. And if you insist not to, you will keep hurting yourself needlessly, while such people are least bothered about you. And they would have achieved their intentions anyway : upsetting you and troubling your mind.
Understand that human frame is indeed very weak, and capable of hurting others around them, including you.
Therefore know it that there should be a limit to which you can always rely on people : man will always be man, know it for sure.
Your reliance on God must therefore be ever implicit. He is the ONLY sure and permanent friend a man can ever have.
Good day to you
